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Ten Ways To Help Your Bullied Child

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Being bullied has become one of the most common things in today’s world; it happens mostly in kids. It doesn’t matter how young your child is, even if he is in the playgroup or kindergarten, there are chances for the other kids to bully him. If his classmates don’t do that, his seniors can always do that.

Bullying may seem like just another ‘ragging’ activity done with the kids in school, but it can affect their minds in the worst ways. Some of the kids have even gone into suicidal thoughts because of the way they are bullied at school or college. Nothing can be worse than being bullied at a tender age, when your child is not even capable of telling the spellings for the word STRESS.

Yes you read it right – bullying causes stress on the mind of an individual, for he doesn’t know what to do about it. But who is at fault for this activity? Personally, I believe the students, who bully the others, are not being taught about the difference between the right things and the wrong ones. Once you are a parent, it is your duty to tell your child how to behave with others and why to behave that way with them.

Remember – rather than telling your daughters not to get raped, tell your sons not to rape! The biggest thing that you can do to avoid bullying is to tell your child NOT TO BULLY others and NOT TO DISCRIMINATE on the basis of religion, region, color, gender or class. When your child grows up with the right attitude and attributes, there is no way in which he can bully or be bullied at any point of time in his life. Moreover, when he turns into a parent, he is bound to share the same teachings with his children.

But what to do when your child is being bullied and he is not at all at fault? Here are the top ten ways in which you can help your bullied child cope up with the stress:

  1. Tell him to avoid being in the groups, who are not worth his presence: If your child has been sitting with those, who never support him when he or the entire group is bullied, he must know that the group doesn’t deserve him. Once your child is away from such groups, bullying can be avoided, to a certain extent.

  2. Tell him to make good friends at school: If your child is constantly bullied at school and he is not capable of giving it back, his friends can do the needful for him. All you need to do is tell your child to make good friends at school, who can help him, whenever he bullied by the others around him.

  3. Tell him you are always there, no matter how bad the things get: The major issue that a bullied child goes through is depression. Don’t let your child fall into the pit of depression, no matter how hard the situation seems. It is always good to remind him that you are always with him, despite the situation. When he has your hand in his troubled times, he doesn’t need anybody else. Your presence matters the most in your child’s life.

  4. Talk to the kids or the parents of the kids, who have been bullying your child and hampering his peace: If the situation worsens, it is better to talk to the kids, who have been bullying your child. If it doesn’t work, it is better to bring it to the notice of the principal of the school and demand to meet the parents of the kids. Once you talk to the parents, there are chances for the bullying kids to feel threatened or scared to destruct your child’s self-respect.

  5. Make sure he sleeps well, so that bullying doesn’t affect his physical health and mental peace: Bullied kids hate to go to school and the stress doesn’t allow them to sleep at nights; bullying may lead to a lot of physical problems. Make sure your child sleeps well and the bullying issue doesn’t affect his health.

  6. Tell him not to take bullying seriously; if you keep telling him this, he would not let his self-respect get hampered in any way at all: Bullying should never hamper the self-respect of your child. Teach him the kids are not worth affecting his self-respect.

  7. Tell him to give it back, if necessary, but not get into physically violent fights: If you really want your child to grow smarter, it is better to tell him to give it back. However, don’t tell him to be violent with the other kids.

  8. Keep an eye on the things he does at school, alone or even online: Online bullying has led to a few suicides lately; ensure keeping an eye on all the things that your child does.

  9. Teach him to be witty to those, who need the dose of some cynical words: It is always good to teach some witty statements to your kid, so that he gives it back to the others bullying him. Being cynical is good at times!

  10. Teach him different ways to analyze people before being friends with them: There are times when even friends bully; teach your child different ways in which he can categorize people, depending upon their habits and hobbies.

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